Have you ever let your partner go and would do anything possible or imaginable to get him or her back? Maybe you were the one that was let go and you are left mystified, and shaken, confused about what went wrong and why. No matter the circumstance, you, like thousands and thousands of others are going through a break up that is very much possible to win that person back. Here you will find a tid bit of information to help you learn how to get your ex back.
How would you feel if I told you that you can make your girlfriend or boyfriend to forget and forgive everything that you have ever done wrong? You can make them forget completely about being with anyone else other than you. In fact, you can get them to want you back so bad that they would do anything, even beg and plead to get your ex boyfriend back.
Before we get into what you can do, let’s go over a few points about what NOT to do. These are just as important because most people who are emotionally unstable don’t always act without thinking first. Your body and mind will tell you to react and act on instinct but that is the worst thing that you can do.
- Do not try to make your ex boyfriend or girlfriend jealous by dating or flirting with someone else! Think about why you wouldn’t want to do this real hard. It’s not going to make them want you even more, just the opposite! They will be so angry that it will just completely reaffirm why they shouldn’t be with you now or ever. It will probably just make them go out and do the same. Is that what you really want? Didn’t think so.
- Don’t try to ignore your ex or stay far away for too long. Yes it may be good to give each other enough space for a brief period to make sure that you do in fact want your ex back. If you give them too much time, they will indeed move on and it may just be too late to try to rekindle the fire. Without being too much up in their face about how bad you want them back, let it be known that you are thinking about them and care about them. And if you don’t try, how are you going to know whether or not they don’t feel the same way about you?
- Be careful with accepting advice from others. If is sounds too good to be true, it probably is. Take your time to really research what works and what doesn’t. There are some really good programs online that CAN help, but there are also other articles and programs that most surely will not. I hate to say it, but learning how to get your ex back is not going to happen overnight. There are all kinds of effective methods that you can use and most of these methods will take work over a period of time. There’s no magic button or easy button that will make him or her instantly come back to you without effort and time.
3 Powerful Tips to Win Your Love Back
- Do everything in your power to satisfy his or her senses. This will help if done properly. What I mean by this is that you should dress nice and wear something that you know your girl or your man will like. Do you have an outfit that your man or woman likes you in? How about a cologne or perfume? Or maybe a certain body spray? You can also take them out to eat at their favorite restaurant, play their favorite music, and do things that your ex generally can’t say no to and will appreciate you even more. By playing favorites with their senses you are digging right into their subconscious level. Subconsciously they are starting to understand why they need to be back with you.
- Know what you are going to say and when you are going to say it. These first words you communicate mean more than you might think. First impressions are super, duper important. Besides playing nice with his/her senses (above), you also need to prepare what you are going to communicate, how and when. Are you going to call your ex or text? What are you going to say? Where are you going to meet if he says yes? These are all things you need to figure out before you run into them again.
- Keep in mind that no matter what, nothing is without hope. Even if you royally screwed things up and think there is no way in hell that your ex would ever get back with you, if you start making the right moves and show him or her, with actions and words, it is possible to win them back. Love has a funny way of progressing and evolving with couples, and everything happens for a reason. So if you truly feel you are supposed to be with this person, you need to fight for that love and never give up on it.
Additional Tip: Works Great!
Something that I have seen work first hand is to playfully use your ex’s words and incorporate them into your dialogue with them. For example, your man or woman might use a figure of speech that no one else uses. If you start saying it, then they will subconsciously (Yes this word again. Psychology has everything to do with getting your ex back) think that the two of you are compatible because you understand each other and communicate so well.
I hope this article about how to get your ex back was somewhat helpful for you. It may not be the easy button you might have been hoping for, but remember that all is possible with love and given enough time and effort, you can get your ex back. The human mind works in mysterious ways and you can use what we know about psychology to work this person back into your life, and for good.