It’s hard to feel optimistic about something when your feelings are hurt immeasurably. But despite how pessimistic you feel about the whole situation with your ex boyfriend right now, please believe me when I tell you that you can get him back, no matter the situation, if you truly want him back.
It may be hard to fathom that no matter how bad you think things might be, you can still win back your man and have him come running back into your life with open arms. Before this can happen, there are a few things you need to really understand first. In fact, there are at least 3 essential steps you make first before you do anything else. Watch the following video to learn what these 3 things are…
There are certain things about men that you can use to your advantage if you want to learn how to get him back. For example, just by mentioning words or phrases that your ex boyfriend uses often, this subconsciously sounds like music to his ears and will automatically bond you together. Here are a few more tips that you can use to get your ex boyfriend back much faster and sooner than you might think.
Learn as much as you can about the current state of mind of your ex boyfriend. If he cheated on you or is already seeing someone else, you may be out of luck. However, if he seems like he is still up in the air about whether or not he wants to get back with you, you may have a better shot than you might think. You may even find that your ex still really cares about you… a lot. If he does, you’ve already got a foot in the door.
After you have had the courage to strike a conversation with him, its time to ask him if he wants to do something, but nothing that he has to go out of his way to do or commit a lot of time and energy to. In other words, do something that you know he likes to do, then it will be much tougher for him to say no to. For example, if basketball is his thing, see if he wants to watch the game at a local bar, go to the game, or even shoot around. Each man is different so it is up to you to know what it is he likes.
Once you have him out and enjoying his time with you, then you can mention something like you are thinking about him or still care for him. There’s no need to overdo it here. Don’t be sappy and add any cheese on the top of these few little words. Make it subtle and short. It will strike a good chord and make him feel even more comfortable and close to you at a time when he is already enjoying himself. Then he will relate that enjoyable moment with you and want to do it again…with you.
After a few of these little non-committal dates, then you can start to speak to him in a more matter of fact manner. Since the both of you have had time to think and have gained some fresh insight and perspective, you can now tell him how regretful you might be and how you want things to be different and better.